“Through
the Mission for Transformation courses I learned how to be inquisitive,” says
Fátima Guevara, a leader of “La Hermosa” Church in Estelí.
There is
an interesting story behind the previous statement.
Fátima, a
physical therapist by profession and a youth leader in ministry, is a friendly
and a hard working person. She admits, however, that she had certain fears that
affected her ministry. “Because of my shy personality, I had a lot
of difficulty relating with other people.
In my youth group I kept a distance between myself and the youth. I would just arrive, share a message, we
would sing some songs, we would interact a bit, and then it was, ‘See you next
Monday!’ The following Monday, we would
repeat the same thing. I was not someone
who would ask the kids how they were doing or how their families were. For me, that was like meddling in their
lives. I had a lot of fears, but after
attending some of the courses for youth leaders, I was able to understand the importance
of getting closer to the kids, establishing personal relationships, and seeking
them out during the week as well.”
“In the courses, I learned that my thinking had
been wrong. I learned that when I ask
questions, it makes others feel like I am interested in them. Now I ask, “What’s
your name? Do you have siblings? How are you feeling? How have you been doing?’” says Fátima.
In the
Nehemiah Center’s courses for youth leaders, we studied how Jesus was always
asking questions and how at times, he even asked questions that seemed
childlike. For example, he said to the blind
Bartholomew, “What do you want me to do for you?” On another occasion, he said to a man who had
waited for a miracle for 38 years, “Do you want to be healed?” Even to his enemies, he asked, “Why do you
want to kill me?”
These questions
that Jesus asked gave a distinctive character to his ministry. He gave people the opportunity to express
themselves with their own voice and he gave them all of his attention. This is how we see him on the road to Emmaus,
asking his confused disciples, “What are you talking about amongst
yourselves?” Then we see him give them
all the time necessary for his followers to tell him the whole story.
And us? Do we ask questions? Is our ministry distinguished by an ability
to ask questions before speaking and acting?
How willing are we to listen to the details of those stories other
people need to tell?
Just
imagine what could happen if we asked more often in the communities or groups
where we serve, “What can I do for you?”
“What are the people talking about?”, “What are your concerns?” With Jesus’ example, we are given permission
to do this!
Fátima reminds us that a Christian
leader should be inquisitive. In these
times of fleeting and superficial relationships, our society is thirsty for
those who take the time to listen to others and for people who show a genuine
interest in finding answers more than imposing answers. If the Church of Jesus Christ does not do
this, “Who then will quench this thirst?”
"Always
the beautiful answer who asks a more beautiful question."
E.E.
Cummings.
